Can yew pple plz helppppp me???

i have a problem in my person life.. but i want help from yew guyz because my brain is not workin nemore...:(


actaully, m in usa and ma bf is in back home... hes getting engage soon... he doesnt want to but his parent are forceing him to to marry tht gurl otha wise they gona kick him out of the house.. he told his parents that he love someone else but they arnt listeing to him because according to them , hes crazy and its the matter of their family values and...respect.. he tried his level best to convince them but. no use.... now... we r losin our hopes:(,.. ple.. guide us if u can... by giving us positive ideas. so that no one gets hurt .. by our decision... thx...

Can yew pple plz helppppp me???
Sounds to me like its not a decision that you will make. The ball is in his court. You could always just elope and then what could anyone do?
Reply:If you are both of age then it's time to do what's best for you, he must be made to realize that it's his life now and not his parents life to live for him, if you both love each other and make each other happy, then his parents must be made to understand this , if they truly want him to be happy then they will realize that you are the one that makes him happy, this may be difficult for them to accept, but in time, if they have his best interest at heart, they will come to realize that you are what makes him happy, I don't envy you your task....winning the confidence of in-laws is never easy, time and persistance is the only thing that will prevail here, and if they kick him out of there house, I'm sure you would be delighted to have him stay with you, which is what you want anyway.....RIGHT? so talk to him, get your priorities in order, take a deep breath and be prepared to dive into........LIFE, if he loves you as much as you love him, then nothing will stand in his way of happiness and you must do the same, be ready to support each other, that is the true test of long-lasting relationships....................GOOD LUCK!!!!!
Reply:arrange marriage still exist. so if I were you, start forgetting him and look for another one. keep your head up. or if he is


really in love with you, he would try everything to be with you.
Reply:His 2 choices seem pretty simple: 1) go along with what his parents want, or 2) reject what his parents want.





Option #1 - bad choice, although he will be following his cultural values and keeping his parents happy. I doubt letting someone else choose your life partner will work out in the end, but I could be wrong.





Option #2 - Also a bad choice. If he chooses you over his parents and culture, he will be a man without parents. He will be forced away from his home and family. This could cause a lot of stress in your relationship. They may come around, in time, but it's highly doubtful. If he chooses you, he'd better be sure it's the choice he wants, because there's no going back. The damage cannot be undone.





But if it were me, I'd opt for my personal happiness over my parents' desires. You are the only person living your life. You must pursue your own happiness.





But the choice isn't mine to make, nor is it yours. It's his. Give him the time and space to make the choice, and if he chooses his parents over you, you need to respect that decision and move on. You don't have to like it, but you do have to respect it.

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