How would yew cope?Plz help very IMPORTANT!!!!?

well lets say theres a girl.


During her chilhood her parents used to abuse her. Her mom and dad would fight everyday and eventualy her mom cheated on her dad and left the family for three months and came back because she became poor. When that girl was 10 she was sexually abused by the father of the boy her grandma used to babysit. These incidents left deep scarrs in her life. As she grows up she becomes more of a disturbed person than ever.Now she's a senior in middle school. She cuts herself sometimes when she gets into big fights with her family or when her younger fat brotehr beats the hell out of her. She's bulimic (5'5 120lbs) She doesnt know how ta cope with life so she just tunes all the problems out and simply listens to her iPod. She goes to the library and reads all the time about monsters especially vampires. She's always under house arrest because her mom doesnt let her go anywhere .Straight from school she's either at the library or at home.Umm so i was just wondering

How would yew cope?Plz help very IMPORTANT!!!!?
How about talk to the guidance counceler at school, they have great resources, for her. You also could just tell the counceler your concers about your friend. They deal with things such as this and worse, trained to be CONFIDENTIAL and kind. You are not doing her any favors by letting her slip thru the cracks, if she dosent get help things will only get worse!!! She deserves to have happines and feel safe!!! Sometimes the right thing to do isnt the easiest!!!! Be her friend stick by her and GET HER THE HELP SHE NEEDS AND DESERVES!!!! I fthis is you please go to the Guidance counceler they will know what to do to get you on the right track, and to keep you safe!! You have to do something to break the silince, that is what is killing you!!





If she dosent get help these people will keep doing this to other kids as well, she could save the life of another just by telling her story!!!! that in itself is HUGE!!
Reply:I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I am not surprised that she doesn't know how to cope with life because she has not had good role models. This must be very difficult for her but it sounds like she needs some guidance and love.


At school, there are counsellors who care. She must talk to someone about this because what has happened to her should not be allowed to shape who she can become. In other words, she has the rest of her life to live. She can plan to go to college, get a good job and live the rest of her life free from pain and abuse.


I would urge your friend to seek help. Why is she under house arrest? I would also tell her to start looking for a part-time job to get her out of the house. She is young and deserves to be treated with dignity. Good luck.
Reply:****...this kid sounds a little like what my sister undoubtedly would have become in different circumstances. My sister has a perfect, charmed family life, yet she's become a pathological liar and caused a lot of hurt. If she had grown up like your friend, she would have definitely become what you described. Different circumstances, same person.





Honestly, let me read you a Gandhi quote. "The best way to find oneself is to lose oneself in the service of others." You have no idea how healing it can be to help others. The best cure for your own depression...is to go out there and help another of the downtrodden.


Does your school have some sort of SAVE or SADD or human rights club or something? She needs to find people who are focused on helping OTHERS, whether it be starving children in Africa or starving children right here in the US. Once you start fighting to help other souls, you find your own is healed.


It worked for my friend, I hope it works for yours.





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